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If there is one thing that I have learned in life is thatvery disheartening.
people in general do not like change. There are anyMainly due to the fact that if they were willing to
number of motivators that we could list here thatmake a change at this point, further complications
would cause someone to make a change in their life.could be avoided down the road. As I have heard all
However, there is and never will be a motivator asof my life: You can lead a horse to water, but you
powerful or more assured of getting change out ofcan’t make him drink.
people as “pain”. As an example, I amVery often I end up talking to these same people
sure that you know someone that simply does notdown the road and the only thing that has changed is
like to go to the dentist. Over the years I havethat the discomfort has reached a point that they
known any number of people that simply did not likeare willing to make a change. Or, as I stated early
going to the dentist for one reason or another andthe fear of the pending discomfort has reach a point
as such short of being threatened with death youas which they are now willing to try something to
would not find them in a dentist office.avoid the pending pain. For reasons that could fill a
The exception to that rule is a tooth ache thatbook the obstacles that they had during the initial
gradually increases in intensity to a point where theinteraction are no longer such an obstacle. The cost
pain is no longer tolerable. At this point the pain ofisn’t such a problem, the taste might not be
the tooth has surpassed their fear of walking intoso bad, or now remembering to take the product on
the dentist office. Think of your comfort zone as aa daily basis won’t be such a problem after
box that you live in and outside that box you will findall. A great, but sad example of this is someone that
change. As I mentioned there are any number ofhas an addiction. They will find a way to get a fix
things that will motivate a person to step outsideregardless of whether they can afford anything else.
that comfort zone and go through the change thatI known people on fixed incomes that struggled with
waits outside of their comfort zone. Now, thinkthe cost of their medications, groceries, etc, etc, but
about the one thing that will get people to movealways had cigarettes on hand.
outside of their comfort zone when nothing else will.The sad part is that we all have a choice to make
In many cases that motivator is some type ofand often, so many people choose to make poor
discomfort (pain) or fear of the pain that will bedecisions or no decision at all – which is really
experienced without the change required to avoid it.the same as making a bad decision. There are
I see this all too often and it typically goes somethingmountains of research showing that with a consistent
like this. I’ve talked with a potential newday to day wellness plan we can avoid much of the
customer that is having health issues of some type.pain and discomfort that we put ourselves through.
We’ve discussed the challenges that they areWorse yet, if we ignore our health long enough we
having and feel confident that I have a product thatend up talking to a doctor that writes a prescription
will help them improve the quality of their life. Keep inthat makes us feel better (or at least covers up one
mind that in many cases these products have beenproblem), but has not addressed the real problem. In
through double blind placebo human clinical trials withmore cases than not we are taking prescriptions that
third party validation – the gold standard ofsimply mask the under lying problem and as such we
testing. As such there is solid science proving thatcontinue to do more damage to our bodies. To
these products will work. The person in question hasfurther complicate matters many of the prescriptions
tried the product and during the follow up I discovercause serious side effects and in millions of cases
one of the following:each year death. Great you no longer have the
- The product was not taken as recommended.symptoms that you were suffering from, but now
- The product wasn’t taken at all.you are dead because of complications. Not a good
- The product was taken and there were positivetrade off from my perspective.
results, but they are not going to continue with theSo, if these prescriptions are not addressing the real
product because________(you fill in the blank)problem, what is the real problem?
- And the list goes on. All of these tell me there is